Some state related to WasmMemories is cached on the JSArrayBuffer
object (is_growable, is_wasm_memory). The problem with this is in
some PostMessage flows, this information can get lost depending on
how JSArrayBuffers are deserialized. In this particular case when
the WasmMemory is postMessaged, it goes through the Blink
DedicatedWorkerMessagingProxy::PostMessageToWorkerGlobalScope flow,
which reconstructs the ArrayBuffer from the backing store, and size,
and loses the is_growable flag, leading to a failure to grow memory.

Moving the is_growable flag so that AllocationData can be the source
of truth for all wasm memory state, and is consistently preserved
across PostMessage.

Change-Id: I775f66ddeff68b8cafc18b75ca5460dfb0343c8b
Bug: v8:9065
Reviewed-on: https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/c/v8/v8/+/1549789
Commit-Queue: Deepti Gandluri <gdeepti@chromium.org>
Reviewed-by: Ben Titzer <titzer@chromium.org>
Reviewed-by: Adam Klein <adamk@chromium.org>
Cr-Commit-Position: refs/heads/master@{#60641}