This makes the V8 dcheck control independent of Chromium's and
prepares switching Chromium's default behavior without affecting V8
developers or builders.

Preparation for: https://crrev.com/c/2893204

Bug: chromium:1225701
Change-Id: I520b96019b04196f4420716ff3500ebd6c21666f
Reviewed-on: https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/c/v8/v8/+/3038528Reviewed-by: Leszek Swirski <leszeks@chromium.org>
Commit-Queue: Michael Achenbach <machenbach@chromium.org>
Cr-Commit-Position: refs/heads/master@{#75827}