Design doc:  https://bit.ly/3jEVgzz

Summary:
We change the context for WasmJSFunction and WasmCapiFunction from a
tuple containing the instance to a triple WasmAPIFunctionRef =
{isolate root, context, callable}. This way we do not have to maintain
the correct instance at runtime. Also, a few places in the code get
simplified.

Changes:
- In WasmGraphBuilder, support having a WasmAPIFunctionRef at parameter
  0.
- Remove unpacking of (instance, callable) tuple from code generators.
- Remove the part in WasmGraphBuilder and LiftoffCompiler that used to
  set the instance field of the function reference.
- Modify code that handles the 'ref' field in wasm-objects.*, factory.*
  and c-api.cc.
- Fix the recorded safepoint address for arm when calling a C function
  from wasm.
- (Drive-by) Remove WasmAllocatePair.

Bug: v8:11510
Change-Id: I2a4ef3abaf9da36c4a2d85b434965a40a289b9ec
Reviewed-on: https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/c/v8/v8/+/3236719
Commit-Queue: Manos Koukoutos <manoskouk@chromium.org>
Reviewed-by: Jakob Kummerow <jkummerow@chromium.org>
Reviewed-by: Michael Lippautz <mlippautz@chromium.org>
Reviewed-by: Maya Lekova <mslekova@chromium.org>
Cr-Commit-Position: refs/heads/main@{#77639}