ValueDeserializer should be lenient and not assume correct usage when
deserializing shared objects. This CL makes ValueDeserializer throw if
a shared object conveyor id or shared object id are not found.

Bug: v8:12547, chromium:1359227
Change-Id: I429a37dfadd95e42edca5d4870eb5188cb013bc7
Reviewed-on: https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/c/v8/v8/+/3872549Reviewed-by: Dominik Inführ <dinfuehr@chromium.org>
Reviewed-by: Adam Klein <adamk@chromium.org>
Commit-Queue: Shu-yu Guo <syg@chromium.org>
Cr-Commit-Position: refs/heads/main@{#83004}