Mostly a port of changes from chromium to support building from
directories other than out/Release or out/Debug.

Also moved tools/ninja/ninja_output.py to tools/vim/ninja_output.py to
be more consistent with chromium's layout.

Change-Id: I73199f10e48b6d9a229bef6af14b84b1ae6be1c2
Reviewed-on: https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/c/v8/v8/+/2797536Reviewed-by: Benedikt Meurer <bmeurer@chromium.org>
Commit-Queue: Zhi An Ng <zhin@chromium.org>
Cr-Commit-Position: refs/heads/master@{#73777}