We have similar logic in place when allocating wasm memory fails. For
growing, we also need to hard-abort the program, because it would cause
observable differences in program behaviour otherwise.

R=ahaas@chromium.org, machenbach@chromium.org

Bug: chromium:1063951
Change-Id: I98f3b5364100900fce0e6553a347155a39923ca6
Reviewed-on: https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/c/v8/v8/+/2116036Reviewed-by: Michael Achenbach <machenbach@chromium.org>
Commit-Queue: Clemens Backes <clemensb@chromium.org>
Cr-Commit-Position: refs/heads/master@{#66842}