Only run Set/Map grow failure tests on x64 release bots

These tests are too slow to be generally run.

Bug: v8:12741
Change-Id: I142a81a90558942a61b8582756b9227e6d8d634e
Reviewed-on: https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/c/v8/v8/+/3558558
Auto-Submit: Shu-yu Guo <syg@chromium.org>
Reviewed-by: Michael Achenbach <machenbach@chromium.org>
Commit-Queue: Michael Achenbach <machenbach@chromium.org>
Cr-Commit-Position: refs/heads/main@{#79697}

test/message/message.status

@@ -87,31 +87,11 @@
 }], # third_party_heap
 
 ##############################################################################
-['msan == True', {
-  # Large allocations
+['not (arch == x64 and mode == release)', {
+  # Only run these known slow tests on bots that we think to be reasonably
+  # fast.
   'fail/map-grow-failed': [SKIP],
   'fail/set-grow-failed': [SKIP],
-}],  # 'msan == True'
-
-##############################################################################
-['tsan == True', {
-  # Large allocations
-  'fail/map-grow-failed': [SKIP],
-  'fail/set-grow-failed': [SKIP],
-}],  # 'tsan == True'
-
-##############################################################################
-['simulator_run', {
-  # Too slow on simulators
-  'fail/map-grow-failed': [SKIP],
-  'fail/set-grow-failed': [SKIP],
-}],  # simulator_run
-
-##############################################################################
-['is_full_debug', {
-  # Too slow in non-optimized debug mode
-  'fail/map-grow-failed': [SKIP],
-  'fail/set-grow-failed': [SKIP],
-}],  # is_full_debug
+}],  # not (arch == x64 and mode == release)
 
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