Reland "[wasm] Use work-stealing queues for background compilation"

This is a reland of d746be9c

Original change's description:
> [wasm] Use work-stealing queues for background compilation
> 
> This reduces contention on the mutex protecting the {CompilationState}
> by splitting the compilation unit queues into several queues (one per
> background task). Each task executes its own queue first, and steals
> from other queues once it runs out of work.
> The implementation of the set of work-stealing queues is encapsulated
> in the new {CompilationUnitQueues} class in module-compiler.cc.
> 
> R=titzer@chromium.org
> 
> Bug: v8:8916
> Change-Id: I5a40314917e7d4a35d7ff9e8ec124ec212beacab
> Reviewed-on: https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/c/v8/v8/+/1543350
> Commit-Queue: Clemens Hammacher <clemensh@chromium.org>
> Reviewed-by: Michael Starzinger <mstarzinger@chromium.org>
> Cr-Commit-Position: refs/heads/master@{#60572}

Bug: v8:8916
Change-Id: Ic0cbad0ddc31be24715c5490b9ec71a39186fd3b
Reviewed-on: https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/c/v8/v8/+/1549172
Commit-Queue: Clemens Hammacher <clemensh@chromium.org>
Reviewed-by: Michael Starzinger <mstarzinger@chromium.org>
Cr-Commit-Position: refs/heads/master@{#60653}