Adds infrastructure to allow embedders specifying a detachedness state
that is queried when encountering an object with a TraceReference that
has a non-zero wrapper class id set.

Change-Id: Ie7f2f253544ee25a25565eb08d82e9df5f0a74d2
Bug: chromium:1056170
Reviewed-on: https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/c/v8/v8/+/2502345
Commit-Queue: Michael Lippautz <mlippautz@chromium.org>
Reviewed-by: Omer Katz <omerkatz@chromium.org>
Reviewed-by: Ulan Degenbaev <ulan@chromium.org>
Cr-Commit-Position: refs/heads/master@{#70841}