Move on-allocation and on-move events to a designated tracker that is
only installed when running with debugging flags. This eliminates a
bunch of flag checks as they are all moved behind the allocation
trackers.

Bug: v8:12615
Change-Id: Ied6819991511328351825e2341375c36ae34916b
Reviewed-on: https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/c/v8/v8/+/3450419Reviewed-by: Dominik Inführ <dinfuehr@chromium.org>
Commit-Queue: Michael Lippautz <mlippautz@chromium.org>
Cr-Commit-Position: refs/heads/main@{#79014}