Add new macro-assembler instructions that can handle both AVX and SSE.
In the SSE case it checks that dst == src1. (This is different from that
the AvxHelper does, which passes dst as the first operand to AVX
instructions.)

Sorted SSSE3_INSTRUCTION_LIST by instruction code.

Header additions are added by clangd, we were already using something
from those headers via transitive includes, adding them explicitly gets
us closer to IWYU.

Codegen sequences are from https://github.com/WebAssembly/simd/pull/380
and also
https://github.com/WebAssembly/simd/pull/380#issuecomment-707440671.

Bug: v8:11086
Change-Id: I4c04f836e471ed8b00f9ff1a1b2e6348a593d4de
Reviewed-on: https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/c/v8/v8/+/2578797
Commit-Queue: Zhi An Ng <zhin@chromium.org>
Reviewed-by: Bill Budge <bbudge@chromium.org>
Cr-Commit-Position: refs/heads/master@{#71688}