This is a reland of commit 2b79eefe

A DCHECK was using map[key] and inadvertently inserted into the map
that way.

Original change's description:
> Reland^2: [heap] Store size with invalidated object
>
> This is a reland of commit 23b2d571
>
> When updating pointers during a full GC, a page might not be swept
> already. In such cases there might be invalid objects and slots
> recorded in free memory. Updating tagged slots in free memory is fine
> even though not strictly necessary.
>
> However, the GC also needs to calculate the size of potentially dead
> invalid objects in order to be able to check whether a slot is within
> that object. But since that object is dead, its map might be dead as
> well which makes size calculation impossible on such objects. The CL
> changes this to cache the size of invalid objects. A follow-up CL will
> also check the marking bit of invalid objects.
>
> Reason for reverts:
>
> Revert #2: In-object slack tracking on JSObjects doesn't update the
> cached size of invalidated objects. The fix here was to stop
> invalidating recorded slots on JSObjects at all and avoid that problem
> completely (see https://crrev.com/c/3620274).
>
> Revert #1: Not all size changes go through NotifyObjectLayoutChange, so
> https://crrev.com/c/3607992 introduced NotifyObjectSizeChange as a
> bottleneck for object size changes/right-trimming. This method is
> now used to update the size of invalidated objects.
>
> Bug: v8:12578, chromium:1316289
> Change-Id: I0478d04601c0270ddb39419ca6cf98719951eb4d
> Reviewed-on: https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/c/v8/v8/+/3623542
> Reviewed-by: Jakob Linke <jgruber@chromium.org>
> Reviewed-by: Patrick Thier <pthier@chromium.org>
> Commit-Queue: Dominik Inführ <dinfuehr@chromium.org>
> Reviewed-by: Michael Lippautz <mlippautz@chromium.org>
> Cr-Commit-Position: refs/heads/main@{#80344}

Bug: v8:12578, chromium:1316289
Change-Id: Ibcc04c209213c584860a7c473082526cb4e53c59
Reviewed-on: https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/c/v8/v8/+/3627635Reviewed-by: Patrick Thier <pthier@chromium.org>
Commit-Queue: Dominik Inführ <dinfuehr@chromium.org>
Reviewed-by: Michael Lippautz <mlippautz@chromium.org>
Reviewed-by: Nico Hartmann <nicohartmann@chromium.org>
Cr-Commit-Position: refs/heads/main@{#80542}