Make the crash_on_error parameter false by default, so that the typical
use is easier to read:
Use GetOrCreateData(obj) if you expect the object to be known already.
Use TryGetOrCreateData(obj) if you don't.

Bug: v8:7790
Change-Id: I5732ad13ec582c2a1112032f88be54c833906a6a
Reviewed-on: https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/c/v8/v8/+/2658327
Auto-Submit: Georg Neis <neis@chromium.org>
Commit-Queue: Nico Hartmann <nicohartmann@chromium.org>
Reviewed-by: Nico Hartmann <nicohartmann@chromium.org>
Cr-Commit-Position: refs/heads/master@{#72461}