Disable --always-use-string-forwarding-table when --shared-string-table
is set.
With --shared-string-table we can have parallel GCs in multiple client
isolates. With --always-use-string-forwarding-table we can have young
generation strings in the forwarding table, requiring table updates when
the string gets promoted. This is not supported for parallel GCs.

This CL also reverts the incorrect try to fix an issue with these flag
combination introduced in https://crrev.com/c/3650719

Bug: v8:12877, v8:12007
Change-Id: I49a2aa300af36b82007a7d215afe9a70ac1ce39e
Reviewed-on: https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/c/v8/v8/+/3660258
Commit-Queue: Patrick Thier <pthier@chromium.org>
Reviewed-by: Dominik Inführ <dinfuehr@chromium.org>
Cr-Commit-Position: refs/heads/main@{#80710}