The V8 Extras API provides `resolvePromise()` and `rejectPromise()`
functions that bypass the safety net of the resolve/reject closures
that you get from using the Promise constructor. So it's the
responsibility of the user to make sure that the promises are still
pending. This adds release mode checking and hard aborts to make
sure we catch misuse of these APIs early.

This also turns the DCHECK's in the C++ implementation into actual
CHECK's to make sure we crash hard if the invariants are violated.

Bug: chromium:931949, chromium:931640
Cq-Include-Trybots: luci.chromium.try:linux-blink-rel
Change-Id: I98a6f424d2a3cfbb608fed21036caff6e2510ec3
Reviewed-on: https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/c/1472291Reviewed-by: Jaroslav Sevcik <jarin@chromium.org>
Reviewed-by: Sathya Gunasekaran <gsathya@chromium.org>
Commit-Queue: Benedikt Meurer <bmeurer@chromium.org>
Cr-Commit-Position: refs/heads/master@{#59610}