This is a reland of 3356078a.

The fix is in PS2:
- fix the DCHECK to be triggered only if dst != src, the dcheck
  is meant to prevent rep from being overwritten, which happens only
  if dst != src
- fix instruction selector for f64x2.replace_lane, require SameAsFirst
  only for non-AVX, which makes dst == src, saving a move
- on x64 we also require all registers, since the macro-assembler
  helper only handles registers

Original change's description:
> [wasm-simd][x64][ia32] Factor f64x2.replace_lane into shared code
>
> This pblendw/movlhps combination has lower latency and requires less
> unop than pinsrq (1 v.s. 2).
>
> Bug: v8:11589
> Change-Id: I770b0c20a286774afefbac5ef0adffe463318f21
> Reviewed-on: https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/c/v8/v8/+/2828871
> Reviewed-by: Bill Budge <bbudge@chromium.org>
> Commit-Queue: Zhi An Ng <zhin@chromium.org>
> Cr-Commit-Position: refs/heads/master@{#74049}

Bug: v8:11589
Change-Id: I51cba0539d5241242dc4d7d971ede1940b9ac1fd
Reviewed-on: https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/c/v8/v8/+/2842264
Commit-Queue: Zhi An Ng <zhin@chromium.org>
Reviewed-by: Bill Budge <bbudge@chromium.org>
Cr-Commit-Position: refs/heads/master@{#74545}