This is a reland of 1f504c36

Changes since revert:

- Removed disabling of RO heap sharing when --stress-snapshot is passed;
  was fixed by f4a6c628
- Fixed crashing tests that caused revert separately in
  a61aa491

Original change's description:
> > [ptr-cage] Turn on shared pointer cage by default for arm64 and x64
> >
> > Reviewed-on:
> https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/c/v8/v8/+/2873226
> > Reviewed-by: Igor Sheludko <ishell@chromium.org>
> > Reviewed-by: Dominik Inführ <dinfuehr@chromium.org>
> > Reviewed-by: Ross McIlroy <rmcilroy@chromium.org>
> > Cr-Commit-Position: refs/heads/master@{#74422}
>
> Reviewed-on: https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/c/v8/v8/+/2878855
> Reviewed-by: Dominik Inführ <dinfuehr@chromium.org>
> Reviewed-by: Adam Klein <adamk@chromium.org>
> Reviewed-by: Igor Sheludko <ishell@chromium.org>
> Reviewed-by: Dan Elphick <delphick@chromium.org>
> Cr-Commit-Position: refs/heads/master@{#74448}

Bug: v8:11460
Change-Id: I4e491574437f4c832e24b29815de6bdfd8975511
Reviewed-on: https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/c/v8/v8/+/2891460Reviewed-by: Adam Klein <adamk@chromium.org>
Commit-Queue: Shu-yu Guo <syg@chromium.org>
Cr-Commit-Position: refs/heads/master@{#74546}