This is a reland of bc33f5ae

Original change's description:
> [arraybuffer] Rearchitect backing store ownership
>
> This CL completely rearchitects the ownership of array buffer backing stores,
> consolidating ownership into a {BackingStore} C++ object that is tracked
> throughout V8 using unique_ptr and shared_ptr where appropriate.
>
> Overall, lifetime management is simpler and more explicit. The numerous
> ways that array buffers were initialized have been streamlined to one
> Attach() method on JSArrayBuffer. The array buffer tracker in the
> GC implementation now manages std::shared_ptr<BackingStore> pointers,
> and the construction and destruction of the BackingStore object itself
> handles the underlying page or embedder-allocated memory.
>
> The embedder API remains unchanged for now. We use the
> v8::ArrayBuffer::Contents struct to hide an additional shared_ptr to
> keep the backing store alive properly, even in the case of aliases
> from live heap objects. Thus the embedder has a lower chance of making
> a mistake. Long-term, we should move the embedder to a model where they
> manage backing stores using shared_ptr to an opaque backing store object.

R=mlippautz@chromium.org
BUG=v8:9380,v8:9221,chromium:986318
TBR=ulan@chromium.org

Change-Id: I6c49e2425029b5664ef1c68dab8b5146f4ed0ff2
Reviewed-on: https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/c/v8/v8/+/1719191Reviewed-by: Ben Titzer <titzer@chromium.org>
Reviewed-by: Michael Starzinger <mstarzinger@chromium.org>
Commit-Queue: Ben Titzer <titzer@chromium.org>
Cr-Commit-Position: refs/heads/master@{#63007}