Deleting / deallocating Jobs, along with everything they own (e.g.
PersistentHandles), can take a long time, especially if the allocator
isn't too friendly to deallocating on a different thread than where the
allocation happened.

Instead, enqueue Jobs for deletion as part of background processing,
with the hope that they end up being deallocated on the same thread as
they were allocated, and at the very least taking the deallocation time
off the main thread. The deletion queue is processed after the pending
background jobs are all processed, and counts as a single "background
job" as far as parallelism is concerned.

Bug: chromium:1275157
Change-Id: Ie7c3f725f7e510b4325e7590e60477338c478388
Reviewed-on: https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/c/v8/v8/+/3314835Reviewed-by: Igor Sheludko <ishell@chromium.org>
Commit-Queue: Leszek Swirski <leszeks@chromium.org>
Cr-Commit-Position: refs/heads/main@{#78307}