Update external memory counters when using ArrayBufferExtensions. In
case the array buffers are swept concurrently, the counters are updated
at the beginning of the next minor/full GC. A subsequent GC is going
to update counters faster.

ArrayBufferExtension now stores the accounting_length such that
the sweeper always knows how much memory to deduct from the external
memory on destruction.

ArrayBufferList now also tracks the size of all ArrayBuffers in it.

Bug: v8:10064
Change-Id: I50a8b1180aa837b6932f834df1610255bd2bd9fd
Reviewed-on: https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/c/v8/v8/+/2041441
Commit-Queue: Dominik Inführ <dinfuehr@chromium.org>
Reviewed-by: Ulan Degenbaev <ulan@chromium.org>
Cr-Commit-Position: refs/heads/master@{#66195}