[compiler] Merge the Ref lists

Prior to this CL, Refs were defined through four lists:

HEAP_BROKER_SERIALIZED_OBJECT_LIST
HEAP_BROKER_POSSIBLY_BACKGROUND_SERIALIZED_OBJECT_LIST
HEAP_BROKER_BACKGROUND_SERIALIZED_OBJECT_LIST
HEAP_BROKER_NEVER_SERIALIZED_OBJECT_LIST

Due to the way FooData objects are constructed (a long if-else chain
generated from these lists), the order of entries within the lists and
also between lists was important. In particular, subtypes had to
appear before all their supertypes. Within one list this was doable,
but with the split into 4 different lists this invariant cannot hold
in practice.

This CL refactors the four lists back into a single list to make
observing the invariant possible with upcoming changes. The new
unified list contains the RefSerializationKind as a second argument.

Related changes are not very interesting, except for
TryGetOrCreateData which now uses a set of templated functor objects
for setup (this was necessary to handle different FooData constructor
signatures).

Bug: v8:7790
Change-Id: Ia4c030c767830be4253cf41e3aaf67454f1cbef6
Reviewed-on: https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/c/v8/v8/+/2843351
Commit-Queue: Santiago Aboy Solanes <solanes@chromium.org>
Auto-Submit: Jakob Gruber <jgruber@chromium.org>
Reviewed-by: Santiago Aboy Solanes <solanes@chromium.org>
Cr-Commit-Position: refs/heads/master@{#74171}