This is a reland of 3352fcc9

Disable stress-opt for test and check recompilation before clearing
callbacks.

Original change's description:
> [wasm] Perform NativeModule tier down in parallel.
>
> Reuse logic in {CompileNativeModule} function in module-compiler.cc:
> initialize parallel compile jobs, then wait for them to finish while
> taking part in this compilation.
>
> Bug: v8:9654
> Change-Id: I9974d9f8b516e9faec716a592c7c0ee9c7077d8e
> Reviewed-on: https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/c/v8/v8/+/1977041
> Commit-Queue: Z Nguyen-Huu <duongn@microsoft.com>
> Reviewed-by: Clemens Backes <clemensb@chromium.org>
> Cr-Commit-Position: refs/heads/master@{#65763}

Bug: v8:9654
Change-Id: I8e8830f05e189596207365b7332a2cc25e493e47
Reviewed-on: https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/c/v8/v8/+/2002945
Commit-Queue: Z Nguyen-Huu <duongn@microsoft.com>
Reviewed-by: Clemens Backes <clemensb@chromium.org>
Cr-Commit-Position: refs/heads/master@{#65901}